As good fathers continue to teach their sons to be good men, we will always have good Masons.
.....This being June, the month when we
celebrate Father’s Day, I would like to share with you, my Masonic Brethren,
these thoughts. My father, Wilfred “Bill” Chabot, made me a Mason. Now,
he has never belonged to any Masonic Lodge, but he made me the kind of
person who would want to associate with other men of good will, and he
did this through his lifelong way of teaching me, by example and without
even trying, to live by the principles shared among good men. It is an
example from which I still learn every day, though I am an adult and my
parents are retired.
.....By his example, my dad gave me the
values that Masons share in common. By having friends of various nationalities,
he taught me to consider all men my brothers, regardless of their race
or ethnicity. By being active in Scouting, he taught me to cherish its
devotion to God and Country, and to the service of one’s neighbor. By working
for the defense industry, he taught me patriotism. All of these lessons
predisposed me to cherish the values held dear by Masons, and to know that
I would find a place of belonging in the Masonic Lodge.
.....By getting up every day and working
to support the family (with, of course, the aid and equal contribution
of my mother, but that’s an article for Mother’s Day), he taught me how
men should act --- responsibly. By working with his hands, he taught me
to admire the work of craftsmen. By belonging to the Better Business Bureau
as a small business owner, he taught me to be honest in business and to
expect the same from others. By loving, respecting, and being dedicated
to my mother, he taught me the importance of a stable and nurturing family
life. All of these are ideals cherished by Masons. We learn them
from an admirable man in our life. These ideals enable the interior notion
of fraternity to take root in our hearts, which is why we seek out a Mason
and ask how we can join the Fraternity.
.....Finally, my father taught me to enjoy
reading and to try to understand and benefit from what I read. This provided
the path to my career which, as a clergyman and teacher, has always centered
around learning, and it led me directly to the Masonic Fraternity. In following
his example, I began to read manly poetry, such as that of Rudyard Kipling.
Brother Kipling’s writing got me interested in Masonry by giving me a good
impression of the Craft so that I knew I would be welcome, even before
I ever met anyone who was a Mason.
.....My dad is not perfect, of course,
and neither am I. That is another thing he taught me, humility. He taught
me not to take excessive pride in my accomplishments, but to strive to
imitate the excellence of good men around me. In writing this article,
I am not seeking self-aggrandizement, but rather to pay tribute to the
institution of fatherhood, for the good of our Order, which is founded,
as is family life, on the passing of wisdom and goals from one generation
to the next, from the instructive tongue to the attentive ear.
.....My father is not a Mason and never
has been one, but by being a good man and teaching me to be the best man
I can be, he made me a Mason. So, Brethren, I salute all Dads and hope
you will join me in honoring them.
I congratulate those of you who were initiated, passed, raised, or
otherwise instructed by your own fathers. As good fathers continue to teach
their sons to be good men, we will always have good Masons.
Bruce
Chabot