Reading with your child or grandchild is
a great way for the child to learn and for both
of you to have a wonderful time.
Since
I was a young girl, I have had a love of books. My parents provided
me with a large assortment of reading material from the classics
such as "Goldilocks and the Three Bears" to the then
contemporary "Green Eggs and Ham" (that should date
me). My mother was an English teacher, so she knew the importance
of reading to her children. Still I wonder if she realized the
full impact that exposure to literature has on a child's imagination,
vocabulary, and ability to read alone.
Ample studies now show the benefits of reading
can be gained as early as infancy. Advantages include teaching
the melody and intonation of our language. Even before your
child becomes a toddler, you can teach the mechanics of reading
such as how to hold a book, turning the pages gently, and reading
from left to right and from the front of the book to the back
of the book. As your child approaches the preschool years, he
can start to recognize that letters make up words and that the
words make up sentences of different structures. Knowing how
important literacy is, you may be wondering, "How do I
introduce reading to my child?" It is important to set
aside a daily reading time in a quiet location. Remember to
turn off the TV or radio, thus reducing distractions and allowing
you to talk with your child about the story and its pictures.
As your child matures, reading takes on additional
roles. You can encourage your child to read not only for pleasure
but also for information. Ask your child to find information
from the Yellow Pages, the Internet, cookbooks, etc. If your
child has a particular interest, such as soccer or horseback
riding, help him to research it. In addition, as his reading
improves, encourage your child to read to other young members
of the family including brothers, sisters, and/or cousins. In
doing so, your child or grandchild further develops oral reading
skills.
Some children may appear to read well but fail
to have an understanding of the story. To check your child's
reading comprehension, ask a lot of questions about the story.
Good questions include: "Does this book remind you of any
thing that has happened to you? Which is your favorite character?
Why? Does this story remind you of any others you have read?
Can you guess what is going to happen next? How do you think
the character feels?"
Most importantly, you can encourage your child
to read by being an avid reader yourself. Don't think you need
to be reading Hemingway or Steinbeck to set a good example.
In our house, I love to read novels, while my husband prefers
magazines and newspapers. In this way our daughter is exposed
to a variety of reading materials. We often take Maggie to the
library or a bookstore when we are looking for something new
to read. She loves these outings and has quickly learned how
to return and check out library books and where the children's
literature section is at the bookstore. It's exciting for me
to find the books that I read and loved as a child and to share
them with my daughter. As my mother did for me, I'm hoping through
my example that I will be able to develop in Maggie a lifetime
love affair with reading.
Reprinted, edited for length,
from the November 2001 premier issue of The Rite Path,
a publication of the Guthrie Scottish Rite Charitable and Educational
Foundation