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Though
most of the world today operates on the metric system for weight,
liquid, cubic, square and linear measurements, our country continues
to use a system still known as the English system, despite the
fact that the English switched to metrics decades ago! When Europe
was starting to adopt the metric system, it was expected that
we Americans would gradually wean ourselves off the English and
switch to the metric system. Thus products produced in the United
States, even those not manufactured for export, carry both the
English and metric measurements. Similarly, goods imported into
the United States generally carry both metric and English designations.
But for most of our American school children, their only familiarity
with the metric system is the knowledge that soft drinks come
in one-, two-, or three-liter bottles.
There is, however, another system of measurement, linear at least,
and I call it the "Masonic yardstick." It is simple
to use, and it does not interfere with any other system of measurement.
The rules for using the Masonic standard are as follows: When
measuring up your Brother, neighbor, friend, co-worker, relative
or any stranger, judge him leniently and favorably. When measuring
yourself and your own accomplishments, be stringent.
Such an approach is certainly based upon the principle of "Love
your neighbor as yourself." Just as a person's intrinsic
self-love allows him to overlook his own faults, so, too, must
we overlook another's faults. In regard to our own personal conduct,
we strive both to push away the negative and to embrace the good.
When relating to another individual, however, the Masonic method
is to channel our energies solely into the positive path, "Do
good."
There may be times when someone's conduct does not measure up
Masonically and warrants reproof, but before giving even so-called
constructive criticism, we should question ourselves as to whether
we are fit to be the one to administer it. If reproof must be
given, it should be offered gently, which will obviously enable
it to be accepted more readily than if it were given harshly.
Such words, privately conveyed to a receptive ear from one Brother
to another, are part of our Masonic mission "to make good
men better."
Also, to give a rebuke, one must love the other person just as
a father loves his child or a brother loves his brother. We "aid
and assist" each other when we "whisper good counsel"
and thus assist each other to do better than we have and to be
better than we are. Each of us can choose to be better, and in
helping to create such a Mason, we improve our Fraternity and
ourselves.
Whether he uses the metric, English, or another system of measure
available to him in his daily life, every Mason should live by
the Masonic standard, a measure that, I believe, was created not
by man but by the Creator of us all.
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Melville H. Nahin
is an attorney in Los Angeles, a Past Grand Master of the
Grand Lodge of California (1998-99), Past Venerable Master
of Los Angeles Valley, present Chairman of Los Angeles Scottish
Rite Childhood Language Disorders Clinic, Past Master Ionic
Lodge No. 520 and Southern California Research Lodge, and
Chairman of the Board of Governors Shriners Hospitals for
Children-Los Angeles Unit. |
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